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🐞HELLO FORKERS 🌷🌷🌷May ‘22

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  • DovefromaboveDovefromabove Posts: 88,147
    edited May 2022
    I found going ‘cold turkey’ the best way @Pat E … I stopped … gave OH my cigs and asked him to hide them, but if I phoned him up and asked where they were he was to tell me. (We weren’t living together back then and we were miles apart). I had too much pride to ask him and I wouldn’t let myself buy any so they’re probably still up the chimney of that student house in Warwick Street 😂 That was getting on for 30 years ago … I’ve not had one since but I know that if I had just the one I’d start again. I’m still a smoker … it’s just that I don’t smoke. I understand addiction. 😶

    Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.





  • Allotment BoyAllotment Boy Posts: 6,774
    Morning everyone,  I worked with a chap whose wife smoked,  one day after a talk at school about smoking their son  glued the top of the packet shut on his mums cigarettes. The boy was about 10 at the time. My mum did the same as you Dove went cold turkey,  she stopped after one of the big tax rises, put an unopened pack in a drawer, but never did open it.

    We finally have steady rain,  started about 8:30 typical after all the promises of rain in the night, now its set for the whole morning,  I'll take it though we desperately need it.
    AB Still learning

  • Loraine3Loraine3 Posts: 579
    @Lizzie27 @Busy-Lizzie The majority of my clothes comes from Damart, great choice and sales leaflets are especially good. No connection with the company but I've used them for many years!
  • punkdocpunkdoc Posts: 15,039
    I really admire you non smoking smokers, unfortunately I still smoke and I enjoy it too much to stop.
    I come from a generation of doctors who did all the bad things, whilst telling their patients not to.
    How can you lie there and think of England
    When you don't even know who's in the team

    S.Yorkshire/Derbyshire border
  • Pat EPat E Posts: 12,316
    I can relate to your experience Dove. I started smoking when I was a student nurse. (1975). Then years later, living in Darwin, we bought fish and chips from a Chinese takeaway. I got food poisoning from it and couldn’t face anything for days. It was the perfect opportunity to give up smoking. Not that it was easy once I got well again, but decided it was the perfect opportunity to give up.  
    S. E. NSW
  • Pat EPat E Posts: 12,316
    Der!  Not 1975, it was 1957.  My iPad drives me spare at times. 
    S. E. NSW
  • DovefromaboveDovefromabove Posts: 88,147
    punkdoc said:
    I really admire you non smoking smokers, unfortunately I still smoke and I enjoy it too much to stop.
    I come from a generation of doctors who did all the bad things, whilst telling their patients not to.
    Oh I enjoyed it @punkdoc … I still would enjoy it … but I met OH and he had asthma … but he tried  smoking so that I didn’t ‘taste horrid’ … how could I carry on smoking then? 😳

    Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.





  • YviestevieYviestevie Posts: 7,066
    Morning all,  Sorry to hear about your daughter @Pat E hopefully this 'scare' will give her the nudge she needs to give up.  Both my husband and father gave up smoking cold turkey but unfortunately they left it too late.  I held my dad's hand while he died of lung cancer, a terrible way to go.  Hubby has so far had stent's fitted, a heart attack which led to a quadruple by pass and a stroke.  To be honest his retirement has been ruined all because of smoking.
    I've nothing planned for today, was hoping to get in the garden and started the day by digging up another clump of buttercup that I had been carefully nurturing but it started to rain so I have come inside for a cuppa hoping that I'll be able to get back out there later.

    Hi from Kingswinford in the West Midlands
  • Busy-LizzieBusy-Lizzie Posts: 24,043
    I smoked from 17 to 36 and gave up cold turkey. I'd tried cutting down but it didn't work. My first OH smoked 60 a day and died aged 53, so never got to retirement,  heart attack, but he had emphysema and high blood pressure as well. I missed smoking for a year or two but now I'm so glad I don't smoke.
    Dordogne and Norfolk. Clay in Dordogne, sandy in Norfolk.
  • Busy-LizzieBusy-Lizzie Posts: 24,043
    Loraine3 said:
    @Lizzie27 @Busy-Lizzie The majority of my clothes comes from Damart, great choice and sales leaflets are especially good. No connection with the company but I've used them for many years!
    Thank you. I had a look at their site but they don't do boot cut jeans.
    Dordogne and Norfolk. Clay in Dordogne, sandy in Norfolk.
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