I am interested in what people think about this.

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• debs64 Posts: 5,184

  February 2022

  @Dovefromabove absolutely right. We are quick to condemn women whose children have multiple fathers but no mention is made of men who father children and don’t take care of them. Taking care isn’t just about paying maintenance by the way, it’s a full time job and a massive responsibility to raise a child. 

  Maybe this woman got involved with too many men who saw her as an ego boost and not someone to love. 

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• Dovefromabove Posts: 88,147

  February 2022 edited February 2022

  @debs64 … sadly the usual thing is that the blokes are wanting sex without having to pay for it, so they get it from women who are desperate to be loved, and are making the mistake of believing that sex and love are the same thing 😢 

  
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• debs64 Posts: 5,184

  February 2022

  Any woman raising 4 children by herself deserves all our sympathy and support. 

  Anyone who thinks that having children is a good way to make money clearly doesn’t know how expensive they are. 

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