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  • I've been dropping in to the forum a lot less often than I used to. Not because of the lack of political topics or non-gardening issues, but rather because of the level of aggression by a few, and their lack of consideration for others. 

    Surely there is more than enough aggression across the world, without the need to be unpleasant here in the Gardener's World forum!!

    There are a sufficient number of kind individuals here, to make the place work well. Even those who are aggressive, can be reasonable on occasions - but they let themselves down.

    If I want to talk about fortified structures, for example, without the reference to gardens or gardening, then I log on to a castle forum. If anyone wishes to be aggressive, then surely there are the relevant platforms for that.

    I don't think it is the politics per se that the mods disapprove of, but rather the ferocity of the disputes that inevitably ensue.
  • LoxleyLoxley Posts: 5,698
    edited 29 January
    There was barely any actual hostility in those threads, IMO.

    I wondered where Pansyface had gone to. Hope she rejoins. 
    "What is hateful to you, do not do to your neighbour". 
  • ViewAheadViewAhead Posts: 866
    Loxley said:
    There was barely any actual hostility in those threads, IMO.



    I agree.  We weren't being hostile to each other.  
  • punkdocpunkdoc Posts: 15,039
    I feel that the politics thread, was largely conducted in a very seemly manner, and that is the reason I far preferred it to specific politics forums.
    If individual posts are offensive, remove them, rather than removing an enjoyable place to chat for people in between chatting about their gardens.
    Of course the forum hosts can do whatever they like, but I disagree that they are doing us a favour by hosting the forum. If it did not make money, they wouldn't host it.
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  • steveTusteveTu Posts: 3,219

    Perhaps I've lived a sheltered life and I don't go on many other forums but it took me a while to get used to this one. You would think that a forum based on gardening would be full of friendly helpful folk but there are so many people who make the forum very difficult for new members and it's my guess many just can't be bothered with it. It may be that being new we can't understand some posters humour or have misinterpreted their meaning but the amount of seemingly snippy or snide remarks can be very off putting and it takes quite some time to work out who you wish to listen to and those you wish to dismiss. 
    I'm greatful for those kind and helpful posters and their many years of experience, it's the only reason I stick around.    


    Can I ask if you're then talking about pure gardening questions and gardening replies - or - are you talking about 'bad' replies on other subjects?




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  • ViewAheadViewAhead Posts: 866
    I've been a long-term member of  3 or 4 other forums (ie for a decade or more, making in excess of 20,000 posts on each).  In my experience, whilst the actual topic of interest varies, all forums have similar members.  I quite often read a post on one and it reminds me of a member on another.  Forum participants reflect a range, and just like society you come across the pleasant, helpful, tetchy, exasperated, argumentative, whatever.  🙂


  • thevictorianthevictorian Posts: 1,279
    steveTu said:



    Can I ask if you're then talking about pure gardening questions and gardening replies - or - are you talking about 'bad' replies on other subjects?





    I don't tend to stray much off the gardening path but sometimes the replies to new members asking innocent questions can come across as quite abrupt.

    I'm not a shrinking violet, I don't mind people getting a bit heated or some rigorous discussion but if you aren't familiar with the players it is harder to interpret.
  • B3B3 Posts: 27,505
    The only new member that has ever peeved me ( I said nothing🤐) was one that ended his post with ' no time wasters'.
    In London. Keen but lazy.
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