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Is there a word that pushes your buttons?

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  • @philippasmith2 it's been a hard couple of years 🙂
  • FairygirlFairygirl Posts: 55,117
    You forgot Monday next @B3.... ;)
    I think that might be regional thing though? Or have I got that wrong....
    We often say 'the back of' when referring to time - 'I'll see you at the back of three' for example. Is that just a Scottish thing? 
    It means just after three, but my younger daughter insists that it should mean before three. It's a running joke now.  :)
    It's a place where beautiful isn't enough of a word....



    I live in west central Scotland - not where that photo is...
  • UffUff Posts: 3,199
    I think it's just a Scottish thing Fairygirl. When we came to live in Scotland 22 years ago I just couldn't understand what it meant. I've always been precise with time and to give an hour leeway drove me mad. The back of three to the Scots means any time between 3 and 4. I soon learned however that they are laid back about such things.  :D
    SW SCOTLAND but born in Derbyshire
  • JennyJJennyJ Posts: 10,576
    Nope, "at the back of" is the far side. Often for some nefarious purpose, as in "at the back of the bike sheds".
    Doncaster, South Yorkshire. Soil type: sandy, well-drained
  • LynLyn Posts: 23,190
    Lucky you have some indication of time at all,  down here it’s d’rekly, (directly) could mean in a minute,  in an hour,  week,  month. 
    Gardening on the wild, windy west side of Dartmoor. 

  • LiriodendronLiriodendron Posts: 8,328
    My husband was a bit perturbed yesterday to get an email about the delivery by An Post of his tracked item (his new SIM).  "We delivered it at 08.24", the email stated confidently.  Our postman always comes around 10am, and laughed as he handed over the item.  "This is Ireland!" he said...
    Since 2019 I've lived in east Clare, in the west of Ireland.
  • LiriodendronLiriodendron Posts: 8,328
    Sorry, digressing from words pushing buttons...   :)
    Since 2019 I've lived in east Clare, in the west of Ireland.
  • B3B3 Posts: 27,505
    Feel free. This via the Gardeners' World Forum after all😉
    In London. Keen but lazy.
  • steveTusteveTu Posts: 3,219
    What is getting me is the use of the word apology. I do recognise that the word is used in multiple ways - the commonest being when the person who is apologising is in the wrong and accepts they have done something wrong. They are sorry for their actions (and in that act of contrition are hopefully saying, the act won't happen again). Another way the word is used is when the person apologising in no way sees that they are at fault. They apologise to calm the waters - they apologise because they feel they have been misjudged and use that apology to try to draw a line under the other party's feeling of aggrievement - the 'I'm sorry you feel that way'.

    I think we need a new word, as apology is used in two completely different ways - and saying that Boris 'apologised' is becoming a bit galling (well, for me it is).

    UK - South Coast Retirement Campus (East)
  • B3B3 Posts: 27,505
    An insincere apology is a lie. So just call it lying.
    In London. Keen but lazy.
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