Hugs Jo, do what is right for you whatever others say. Only you really know what you want and need. I don't know your story though but it's your story and your life. There are times when anniversaries can make things harder and other people feel they have to help or say something. Makes them feel useful. I have a sad anniversary before Christmas, first OH.
Dordogne and Norfolk. Clay in Dordogne, sandy in Norfolk.
Jo I really do know what you mean, so sorry and wish I could help. People just don't get it sometimes. I've a neighbour who was persistent about ringing up when I was sick a few months ago and even though I told her I just wanted to hibernate, she kept right on doing it. I hope writing it down here helps you.
And if you really really need to shut them up just tell them you're spending Christmas Day with friends ..............................Gardening Friends .............. some of us will be here for some of the time
Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.
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Hugs Jo, do what is right for you whatever others say. Only you really know what you want and need. I don't know your story though but it's your story and your life. There are times when anniversaries can make things harder and other people feel they have to help or say something. Makes them feel useful. I have a sad anniversary before Christmas, first OH.
jo, I have rare moments of usefulness. More hugs. x
Lots of ((hugs)) from here too Jo - you do exactly whatever you want to and tell the others to go ......
..........fly a kite
Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.
Jo I really do know what you mean, so sorry and wish I could help. People just don't get it sometimes. I've a neighbour who was persistent about ringing up when I was sick a few months ago and even though I told her I just wanted to hibernate, she kept right on doing it. I hope writing it down here helps you.
And if you really really need to shut them up just tell them you're spending Christmas Day with friends ..............................Gardening Friends .............. some of us will be here for some of the time
Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.
esp during the queen's speech?
We'll meet you here about then Hosta
Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.
it's a date. ( can someone tell me what time it's on? )
Anyone got a Radio Times???
Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.