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  • B3B3 Posts: 27,505
    edited August 2023
    Was it the first woman in the clip? She didn't look particularly bothered to me. Europeans are quite prone to the asexual kissing of strangers of either sex. Not sure he'd have patted a male player on the bum, though.
    In London. Keen but lazy.
  • steveTusteveTu Posts: 3,219
    ...but this is a celebration.. I know that does not excuse sexual abuse in the slightest, but different behaviours occur naturally don't they? Things that would not happen in a 'normal' situation do occur. Only the two of them (unless there are also recordings or some lip  reader has analysed the footage) will know what was said, but to me she looked totally unperturbed. BUT then I was quick to jump in on the evidence of the still image. Just shows you shouldn't be tooooooo quick to judge without the full info (or as much as you can get).
    UK - South Coast Retirement Campus (East)
  • ObelixxObelixx Posts: 30,090
    @tui34 - I know but have to wonder how much of the original formula is actually made and how much of it gets diverted to th ehighly profitable "beauty" industry thus making for medical shortages.

    As for that Spanish kiss - not everyone reacts immediately to another person's behaviour, good or bad, and this man is a person in a position of power and, even when she'd got over the surprise, to be seen to react adversely and immediately was not necessarily in her best interests for her future career.  At least now she knows she has support and that may just make some men stop and think.
    Vendée - 20kms from Atlantic coast.
    "The price good men (and women) pay for indifference to public affairs is to be ruled by evil men (and women)."
    Plato
  • KT53KT53 Posts: 9,016
    edited August 2023
    The kiss may be considered normal in some societies but what about jumping up and grabbing his crotch?  I thought only Michael Jackson did that.  Thinking about it, maybe she thought a kiss was more acceptable than shaking hands!
    From what was said on TV this morning he can't be sacked as that could only be done by his boss, but he is the boss with nobody higher in the pecking order than him.  Others may try to force him to resign if they think he should but if he says he's staying they can't make him leave.  He probably models himself on Sepp Blatter who allegedly said women's football would be better if they wore similar kit to beach volleyball players.  He may have a point, but I couldn't possibly comment :D
  • DovefromaboveDovefromabove Posts: 88,147
    Don’t know any society where a kiss on the lips in that situation would he considered normal  :/
     

    Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.





  • B3B3 Posts: 27,505
    In London. Keen but lazy.
  • steveTusteveTu Posts: 3,219
    I think that was my point. I assumed. I saw a still image and made a judgement. The video showed something different to what I had then expected. I think I then said - until  I know all of what happened and what was said (as there are conflicting versions), then my judging based on an image was wrong.
    UK - South Coast Retirement Campus (East)
  • B3B3 Posts: 27,505
    I hadnt thought of it like that.
    In London. Keen but lazy.
  • DovefromaboveDovefromabove Posts: 88,147
    edited August 2023
    Many women have schooled themselves not to show disgust or displeasure if their career or safety depends on not displeasing the powerful perpetrator.  

    Most children haven’t learned to over-ride that instinctive behaviour … unless they’re used to being abused. 
    That’s basic Child Protection  training. 

    Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.





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