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  • Hostafan1Hostafan1 Posts: 34,889
    I can imagine nothing better coming from my death( or that of anyone else ) than to give sight to a blind person, or get someone off a dialysis machine. I'll be dead, they're no good to me.
    Devon.
  • plant pauperplant pauper Posts: 6,904
    Totally agree. And when asked would I accept donations, I would grab them with both hands. I love my life and want it to continue healthily for as long as possible so really I have no moral choice to make. I would/will donate anything useful but...I still struggle to think of myself as dead. Just me...I'll come round.  :)
  • plant pauperplant pauper Posts: 6,904
    Oh my. I knew I was really REALLY like my dad but it seems I've turned into him completely! I'm going to live forever...
  • Hostafan1Hostafan1 Posts: 34,889
    I'm not making any judgments (honestly I'm not) about those who don't want to donate organs, to "strangers" but i wonder if your child/ grandchild, spouse for example , needed  a kidney/ heart to carry on living, and yours were fine , would that be different?
    Just curious.
    Devon.
  • Pauline 7Pauline 7 Posts: 2,246
    Hosta I mentioned my views on this on a previous page. No I wouldn't. 
    West Yorkshire
  • Hostafan1Hostafan1 Posts: 34,889
    Pauline 7 said:
    Hosta I mentioned my views on this on a previous page. No I wouldn't. 
    That's fine , I totally respect your opinions. 
    Devon.
  • Pauline 7Pauline 7 Posts: 2,246
    My apologies @Hostafan1 . Reading back my reply seems rather blunt.  Not my intention. 
    West Yorkshire
  • Hostafan1Hostafan1 Posts: 34,889
    no apology required . :)
    Devon.
  • ButtercupdaysButtercupdays Posts: 4,546
    I've heard it said that everyone has a 'favourite' fear, and mine is mutilation.
    It's why I never got my ears pierced or considered a tattoo and why I can't use a chainsaw.
    It's why it was me who cried the first time my tiny daughter fell over and grazed her perfect skin. I did allow her to have her ears pierced though, when she was old enough to make a rational decision.
    But I have carried a donor card for many years, since I became aware of the scheme, as I will neither know nor care by that stage, and it seems to me immoral not to help someone if it is possible.
    As for accepting a donation for myself, I think it might depend on what was needed and how otherwise old and decrepit I was. There could well be someone in greater need.
  • punkdocpunkdoc Posts: 15,039
    Greatest need is determined by Transplant teams, and reflects a patients position on the waiting list.
    How can you lie there and think of England
    When you don't even know who's in the team

    S.Yorkshire/Derbyshire border
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