This Forum will close on Wednesday 27 March, 2024. Please refer to the announcement on the Discussions page for further detail.
Neighbours cutting our hedge without permission.. l

Hello everyone,
We’ve always been very friendly towards our next door neighbours despite a frosty reception back (for no good reason at all - we always say hello and offer to help) - for the last year and a half, we’ve had constant loud music, noise, teenagers screaming well past midnight and today I have come home to see they have completely cut the hedge on my side of our drive (on our property) despite having stopped them previously on attempt (it is our hedge) and asked them not to - we have nesting blackbirds there.
We’ve spoken to them before about the constant noise and complained to the council but it doesn’t seem to be getting anywhere.. the hedge cutting on our property (he didn’t even cut his own) has been the icing on the cake.
Have people experienced similar things? How did you deal with it? We’ve lived here over 22 years and have had lovely relationships with all the neighbours, who are pleasant and incredibly considerate of overs.
My OH is unwell and suffers greatly from feeling unable to rest and sleep at night, the constant stress is pushed her to a nervous breakdown, it’s become that impactful on our lives. On one side, we just want to move and escape but we love our home & area. I don’t like the feeling of being forced out our own home.
Thanks all.
We’ve always been very friendly towards our next door neighbours despite a frosty reception back (for no good reason at all - we always say hello and offer to help) - for the last year and a half, we’ve had constant loud music, noise, teenagers screaming well past midnight and today I have come home to see they have completely cut the hedge on my side of our drive (on our property) despite having stopped them previously on attempt (it is our hedge) and asked them not to - we have nesting blackbirds there.
We’ve spoken to them before about the constant noise and complained to the council but it doesn’t seem to be getting anywhere.. the hedge cutting on our property (he didn’t even cut his own) has been the icing on the cake.
Have people experienced similar things? How did you deal with it? We’ve lived here over 22 years and have had lovely relationships with all the neighbours, who are pleasant and incredibly considerate of overs.
My OH is unwell and suffers greatly from feeling unable to rest and sleep at night, the constant stress is pushed her to a nervous breakdown, it’s become that impactful on our lives. On one side, we just want to move and escape but we love our home & area. I don’t like the feeling of being forced out our own home.
Thanks all.
0
Posts
We moved and so did the people on the other side of her.
Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.
🤞
A A Milne
I work with someone who's son [plus wife and three children] are in a similar situation, with a total 'bam' living next to them. The guy is in and out of prison and has everyone round them terrified.
I said to her ages ago, if it was me, I'd move. She said all the same things - why should they be forced out etc. Things have escalated, and they are now doing exactly that.
No matter what, your wellbeing is most important.
I live in west central Scotland - not where that photo is...
when asked what my neighbours were like, I said she can be a bit eccentric. They said being ex police they could handle that.
The police whilst this is a criminal act would be loathed to get involved due to their increased workload and prioritisation of dealing with more serious criminal activity.
My advice as per the above is do not register a formal complaint as this would show on police recode which be accesed by any potential buyer online free of charge.
The country realy does not protect many of us when such protection is required.