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Neighbour and tree height query

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  • The boundary posts have been there since the houses were built in the 50s. On the other two boundaries of our property the same posts and wire were used, and there has never been a dispute with either side, so on this basis I would like to think the posts have some meaning. 

    I did ask a fence repair guy to give me advice on putting the wire though myself as I didn’t know what connectors etc would be required, where to get them or how to do it and he just said he wouldn’t be able to do the job, he didn’t offer any response to my questions. On another note physically it would be difficult for me to do it anyway due to my arthritis, but it seems that is still my only choice in getting this resolved to some extent. I won’t continue with legal action due to the cost and the fact it would probably only make the situation worse. 

    Thanks for your reply.
  • BenCottoBenCotto Posts: 4,718
    Nextdoor.com is an excellent site for seeking recommendations of local handymen or women. I would phrase the request along the lines of ‘seeking somebody to put up taut garden wiring’.
    Rutland, England
  • It is horrible to live with disputes like this. 
    I had a similar problem with my next doors over a small patch of ground where I park my car. I came home unexpectedly one day and caught the pair measuring out from my house to where they thought the boundary was. I know they tried to buy my place before I did but the seller refused to drop his price to what they could afford. I have always felt as if they watch my every move.
    The first question the council will ask is have you tried to resolve the query amicably and personally.They do not like to get involved if at all possible. Keep records of phone calls, written messages, dates, letters etc, including and times. Plus photos, just in case your trees are cut down without your knowledge.
    I felt as if I was under siege.
  • K67K67 Posts: 2,506
    Is your husband not able to help in any way?
    You can buy wire tensioners but  would recommend Gripple plastic wire and their fixings. Not particularly cheap but it's easier to manage than wire, not needing so much wrist and hand strength.
    https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gripple-Garden-Trellis-Support-Climbers-Black/dp/B07NS4S8WR/ref=asc_df_B07NS4S8WR/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=350631852685&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=17252109499139039812&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=t&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1006643&hvtargid=pla-761126680285&psc=1

  • FairygirlFairygirl Posts: 55,117
    How horrible @Joyce Goldenlily. I hope you told them to p*ss off. 

    I had grief from various people when I moved in here, and seriously considered moving again. I stood my ground and it improved. I wasn't putting up with people thinking my garden was their property to run across whenever they felt like it.

    Slightly different to the OP's problem though. I'd have thought you could get a local handyman type chap to do as the others are suggesting re wires @New Gardner :)
    If nothing else, it shows you won't back down and be hassled and bullied over this.   
    It's a place where beautiful isn't enough of a word....



    I live in west central Scotland - not where that photo is...
  • Sorry to hear what happened to you joyce, that's just awful. I know what you mean about being watched. Anytime I make any noise in my garden, my next door neighbour is out at his bin to try and find out what I'm doing, he's always listening. The other day the house two doors down was getting their back trees cut and the neighbours either side were out in their gardens to find out if it was to do with our dispute again. I hope things are better now for you.

    Thanks bencotto for the next door recommendation, I'd never heard of it. I see the neighbour behind has been invited on to it but has not yet accepted. It seems very useful. 

    I'll also have a look at the link k67, its using the tensioner etc I'm not sure of and whatever else I would need. My husband isnt great at diy or garden work, it's usually me that does it. His motor skills are slightly affected with the aspergers too. Thanks for the suggestions.
  • K67K67 Posts: 2,506
    edited August 2020
    That's why I suggested the Gripple system it's so easy to use, doesn't require anything more than a pair of secateurs to cut the wire, which isn't wire it's solid plastic, won't rust either.
    I am sure between you both you can do it, if I remember correctly you just want to make a boundary line so it's obvious to the neighbour behind you.

  • Yes that's it, sounds like a solution k67. I think I'll order it today.
  • New GardnerNew Gardner Posts: 79
    edited August 2020
    Hi treeface. It asks for address, name, number and email. I just used my initials when signing up and no one else can see your email or phone number. It only shows name and street, not house number. House number is not shown by default in the settings. Hope that helps. 
  • And you can always change your name...not particularly keen for everyone to have my full name. Mum's maiden name came handy 😂
    To Plant a Garden is to Believe in Tomorrow
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