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  • TopbirdTopbird Posts: 8,355
    One potential problem with having User Moderators is that sometimes stuff might be removed just because it has the potential to become contentious. That doesn't allow discussions to develop and grow. There's a big difference between debate / reasoned arguments and bitching arguments.

    I say that because our local Neighbourhood forum (intended for trade / business recommendations, local private sales and general local info) is moderated by a small group of users. They seem to remove almost any thread which mentions cats messing in gardens, owners allowing their dogs to foul the pavement or game shooting and a few other 'issues'. As on here those threads have the potential to be hijacked with those intent on making personal insults - but they're often removed long before they get to that stage - just in case.

    IMO that's wrong. We live in a country where there is (supposedly!) freedom of speech. I've seen perfectly innocuous threads removed because somebody used one of the trigger phrases in their response.

    We would need to be very careful who we picked to monitor the site while still keeping it as a space for free discussion without personal insults. 
    Heaven is ... sitting in the garden with a G&T and a cat while watching the sun go down
  • FairygirlFairygirl Posts: 55,117
    Absolutely agree with @Hostafan1.
    If someone went and bought a can of baked beans and they were lousy, well - it's only cost them 50p or something, and it's hardly earth shattering. 
    However, if they go out and spend a fortune on a load of plants, and a load of compost and sand, and various other stuff recommended [incorrectly] by someone on the forum, only for those plants to fail because what they've bought/used is wrong for them, that's entirely different. 
    I know what it's like to have very little and to then try and create a garden from scratch. I'd like to help folk avoid that loss.  :)

    It's a place where beautiful isn't enough of a word....



    I live in west central Scotland - not where that photo is...
  • DovefromaboveDovefromabove Posts: 88,147
    edited September 2021
    JoeX said:
    I think there’s a difference between genuine areas of disagreement or difference of experience, which on this forum are usually acknowledged and mutually respected, and totally wrong statements such as ‘no one can have heavy clay in their garden as it’s against building regs to build a house in clay anywhere in the western world’. That sort of statement just has to be refuted. 
    But it doesn’t.  No statement does unless it breaches the forum
    policy - 
    It’s not for us to decide on what breaches forum policy … thats for Immediate Media employees to do. 

    But if you state that blue and yellow unequivocally make purple it is, as far as I’m aware, perfectly ok for me and others on this forum to say that you’re mistaken @Joex , blue and yellow can never make purple, they will always make green. 

    That is all that has been done. 

    This has resulted in me, and others, being on the receiving end of aggression, untrue allegations and vile abuse. 

    Totally unacceptable. 

    Gardening in Central Norfolk on improved gritty moraine over chalk ... free-draining.





  • JoeXJoeX Posts: 1,783
    Woodgreen said:

    when they see many other people posting a different point of view or set of information, or linking to reputable sources.
    But people should be able to do this without receiving abuse @JoeX
    Indeed, abuse should be moderated from any quarter.
  • JoeXJoeX Posts: 1,783
    edited September 2021
    JoeX said:
    I think there’s a difference between genuine areas of disagreement or difference of experience, which on this forum are usually acknowledged and mutually respected, and totally wrong statements such as ‘no one can have heavy clay in their garden as it’s against building regs to build a house in clay anywhere in the western world’. That sort of statement just has to be refuted. 
    But it doesn’t.  No statement does unless it breaches the forum
    policy - 
    It’s not for us to decide on what breaches forum policy … thats for Immediate Media employees to do. 

    But if you state that blue and yellow unequivocally make purple it is, as far as I’m aware, perfectly ok for me and others on this forum to say that you’re mistaken @Joex , blue and yellow can never make purple, they will always make green. 

    That is all that has been done. 

    This has resulted in me, and others, being on the receiving end of aggression, untrue allegations and vile abuse. 

    Totally unacceptable. 
    But it isn’t all that has been done is it?

    If you look through the various noisy threads you can see that a variety of posters are not merely disagreeing with “that forum user” they are attacking them personally. This then feeds the fire.

    Compare:

    1: Blue and yellow make purple
    2: I think blue and yellow makes green
    3: yes, I also think blue and green makes yellow 

    To,

    1: Blue and yellow make purple
    2: 1 doesn’t know what she’s talking about, blue and yellow make green and I don’t know why anyone would say otherwise
    3: 1 should be banned for spreading lies

    Obviously (I hope) I’m over stating the point to make it clear, but the personal elements add nothing and the people chiming in with more personal stuff do nothing but fan the flames.  The first example avoids the whole kerfuffle.

    Now we have a whole thread dedicated to just attacking that one person!
  • Totally agree, Joe, in the first instance. But on almost every occasion the initial responses have been met with 'I've been mixing colours for decades, I'm very knowledgeable on colour mixing, stop trolling me'. I agree that shouldn't mean personal attacks are ok in response though. 
  • 'Don't feed the troll' is the standard advice, although it is very hard to do when one is the target. Ignore and report is the tactic I was used to, but when the report element fails, that is a little frustrating.
  • What is the "ignore", button,?
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