Thank you for getting back to us @BML …. we do like the answers on this forum to be helpful and as reliable as possible, which is why it matters to us when this is subverted by whatever means.
I an assure you that this sort of thing happens very rarely on the forum … most gardeners, old timers and newbies alike, are a pretty friendly, approachable and easy-going bunch. I hope it’s not out you off continuing here … I’m sure the shenanigans will die down very soon.
I look forward to hearing and seeing how you get on with renovating your hedge.
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This is continuation of the same slandering, abuse, and trashing because these are trolls who can bitch and trash talk angels and milk and honey into dog poo. Nothing is sacred and there is nothing they cannot trash. This is trying to cover for and whitewash their online bullying and trolling, stalking me everywhere on the site. You will never see me stalking anyone and bitching at anyone's posts, only having to defend myself and call out when they trash me.
I have been a lifelong gardener who has been a National Trust volunteer helping country habitats and wildlife for years. My posts have been reliable, good, and helpful -- only trashed by the trolls who cannot leave anything good alone.
> a new thread in which you could post your qualifications/accomplishments/worries about abusive behaviour
I will call out and defend the abuse and slander where it happens, thank you. There is one thing to do: Stop trashing me and my posts. You don't see me stalking and bad mouthing and trashing anyone else's contribution here. Only having to defend and call out when the trolls attack me.
Lizzir, would you not like your victim to just quietly take it. You are the ones perpetrating the online bullying and the abuse. You don't see me running behind others and botching at and trashing their contributions. You stop the online bullying and the responses to that will stop naturally.
"would you not like your victim to just quietly take it."
Yet you expected me to just lie down and take your abuse @Jac19 . Nice.
You've also 'trashed' advice which simply differs from yours, and often your comments are highly misleading at best. There are plenty of examples - people only need to look through all your posts.
Plenty of people have reported this poster over the weekend @Lizzie27, so hopefully the mods will take a look and then take some action if they feel it's required.
It's a place where beautiful isn't enough of a word....
I live in west central Scotland - not where that photo is...
I can't stop a line from a Half man half biscuit song repeating in my head. "there's a man with a mullet going mad with a mallet in Millets." Don't know why!
OK, I've read this whole thread, come to it with neutral eyes... I'm afraid there is one person that is causing the offense, It appears that every other person in this thread sees you as the problem @jac19. The fact that we are able to read back every word that every one has said is the evidence, you taking your own interpretation is your own choice, but kindly stop attacking loyal and respected members of this forum please.
Not neutral. Part of the troll gang. The attacks are all coming from the trolls to my nice posts helping people. All my comments are to protect myself from the attacks. I never attack anybody else's contribution.
I am an Ivy League and Oxbridge educated EE & AI Computer Science engineer and mathematician, where I also studied creative writing in the summers and as a minor. Published by New York in full length literary suspense and by literary magazines in poetry and short fiction.
You are a jealous troll trying to spin everything milk and honey and white angels into dogpoo, stalking and trolling me around the site everywhere and hacking at me with made up nonsense. There is nothing you cannot twist and bitch at. Your inner jealousy and ugliness colours what you read in and rotten motive blackens what you write.
Oh, really?
Based in Sussex, I garden to encourage as many birds to my garden as possible.
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I have been a lifelong gardener who has been a National Trust volunteer helping country habitats and wildlife for years. My posts have been reliable, good, and helpful -- only trashed by the trolls who cannot leave anything good alone.
I will call out and defend the abuse and slander where it happens, thank you. There is one thing to do: Stop trashing me and my posts. You don't see me stalking and bad mouthing and trashing anyone else's contribution here. Only having to defend and call out when the trolls attack me.
JUST STOP IT NOW.
We have had enough of your ranting. I have never heard such language in my life.
We will get you banned from the Forum if you continue.
Wouldn't you like to sweep it under the rug, out of sight?
And, Lizzir, you first. When you stop it on me, the protest to defend and protect myself will automatically stop.
Yet you expected me to just lie down and take your abuse @Jac19 . Nice.
You've also 'trashed' advice which simply differs from yours, and often your comments are highly misleading at best. There are plenty of examples - people only need to look through all your posts.
Plenty of people have reported this poster over the weekend @Lizzie27, so hopefully the mods will take a look and then take some action if they feel it's required.
I live in west central Scotland - not where that photo is...
"there's a man with a mullet going mad with a mallet in Millets."
Don't know why!
I'm afraid there is one person that is causing the offense, It appears that every other person in this thread sees you as the problem @jac19. The fact that we are able to read back every word that every one has said is the evidence, you taking your own interpretation is your own choice, but kindly stop attacking loyal and respected members of this forum please.