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Is there a word that pushes your buttons?

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  • Janie BJanie B Posts: 963
    ERICS MUM said:
    Something that really irritates me is the misuse of Me, Myself and I.

    For example “Give it to ME” is correct, but “Give it to Dad and I”.  Why does Me change to I when the subjects are plural ?
    Is "Give it to Dad and I" correct? I would always say "Give it to Dad and me"...
    Lincolnshire
  • B3B3 Posts: 27,505
    edited May 2021
    https://www.thoughtco.com/confusing-i-and-me-1857097#:~:text=The Rules of 'I' Versus 'Me' “I”%20is,together%20two%20or%20more%20objects%20in%20a%20sentence.
    Although this is an American site, the rules are the same.
    In London. Keen but lazy.
  • LiriodendronLiriodendron Posts: 8,328
    You're right, @Janie B.  The problem is that "I" and "myself" are used wrongly so frequently that we are tempted to doubt ourselves...  The use of "myself" rather than "me" or "I" is, I think, an attempt to sound less posh - "my husband and myself" rather than "my husband and I" (which is of course correct, but could make you sound like the Queen...) - or "Myself and John decided to climb Snowdon" - because "me and John" sounds (and is) wrong, but "John and I" somehow sounds too posh.  Sigh...
    Since 2019 I've lived in east Clare, in the west of Ireland.
  • B3B3 Posts: 27,505
    Would a painting by Tom Keating be a genuine fake? What if someone faked a painting by Tom Keating, would it be a fake fake?😵

    In London. Keen but lazy.
  • Janie BJanie B Posts: 963
    edited May 2021
    Interesting about not wanting to sound too posh, @Liriodendron... 


    This all reminds me of "allowing" my kids to use "dice" for a singular one. My brother insisted on his using the (correct?) "die" for just the one. Language changes all the time, and, as a general rule, I accept it if it doesn't obfuscate the meaning. I guess when playing Monopoly my kids' cousins could be looking around for a second die when asked to "pass the dice", but with most of their other friends, one would be sufficient... ho hum...

    (From the www: 
    According to the Oxford Dictionary (US and UK versions) the word “dice” is used for both singular and plural. It also mentions that the use of “die” is becoming increasingly uncommon.)
    Lincolnshire
  • BenCottoBenCotto Posts: 4,718
     I agree with you about language changes @Janie B but I still cannot bring myself to use, for example, prank as a verb. Likewise, no matter how often it is used transitively by others, prank’s close relative ‘to kid’ is an intransitive verb in my world (which stalled around 1970).
    Rutland, England
  • BenCottoBenCotto Posts: 4,718
    Another date quirk I have noticed is that we say ‘ [the year]Two thousand, two thousand and one, two thousand and two’ etc but then it changes to Twenty ten, twenty eleven and so on.

    Personally I cannot handle well the American habit of only using hundreds and not thousands especially when talking of prices. Two thousand three hundred dollars is more accessible to me than twenty three hundred dollars.
    Rutland, England
  • ErgatesErgates Posts: 2,953
    Can’t stand the phrase, ‘for free’, it’s just free.
  • ErgatesErgates Posts: 2,953
    American English has some annoying quirks, and I hate to find them in novels supposedly set in the UK.
    eg Next time I write her, where the British character would say, next time I write to her...
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