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  • jatnikapyarjatnikapyar Posts: 419

    You make me smile Red Dhalia. It reminds me of when I got my first garden (this one) 40 years ago. I felt like I was in a gardeners' paradise!My OH was very keen to contribute and used to arrive home with gifts for 'our' garden, some very inappropiate! He even went wild with the hoe and destroyed the young plants with the weedsimage Luckily the enthusiasm wore off very quickly as things did not happen fast enoughimage

    I am sure your man loves the garden tooimage so do encourage him and give him lots of things to do(that you do not like) and you will have plenty of free time to top up on your tan etc.imageENJOY.

  • I had similar problem last year when he said that we had nettles coming all in the veg patch. He said he was going to hand weed, good job I looked. It was my carrots!!!!
  • SinevegasSinevegas Posts: 55

    RD you make me chuckle. My OH fains disintrest, gave me front garden, wouldn't let me mow lawn in back garden. I got rid of lawn and patioed it. He would'nt care for lavender hedges as they are in front and therefore mine - until now 4 years later when they are sizable and i mentioned buying a strimmer.

    I love repurposing stuff, wanting to grow onions and having a barrow it seems obvious to use the barrow to grow onions.

    i'm still working on OH with repurposing and building things. His recycling is much better though.

    WW is so right. When my garden patio work was finished OH was keen as mustard and followed direction very well image not been in it since!

    Its my thing though (dont want him out here) and the only thing i want from him is for him to enjoy the garden. i want him to be able to sit and relax in it. that would be the best compliment for me.

     

  • Ditto, I like the escapism. Our neighbours laughed at me last year when I was digging out clay, making boarded and tending things as I would be out weeding the lawn etc and I would be called in for tea. They said its role reversal. But he knows it makes me happy so he leaves me to it normally!



    We set the onion sets in some troughs and round the front of the new tubs for the beans that will go up the arch. We have some left to dot here and there and some for my nephew as a present as he wants to grow 'magic veg' so think I have cracked it!



    Needless to say he was proudly showing off 'our' garden, pots, veg and seeds, cuttings today. 'Ours' now is it!!! I think not!
  • Sensible sometimes, organised very in some parts of life, clueless in others. So thanks for the tips. Appreciated.
  • Sue HSue H Posts: 415
    OH Once planted up a container with lobelia in February. Looked nice, and he was proud of it. Didn't have the heart to point out the mistake! Should be encouraged at all costs. Everyone had 'no idea' onceimage
  • It's threatening snow here. Do hope it doesn't my newly planted onion sets are out so I hope they tolerate snow!! image
  • flowering roseflowering rose Posts: 1,632

    well you should have access to some pretty good manure.

  • To be honest fresh horse muck is more likely to scold my Grandad said. The yard has it removed my a farmer weekly so it never gets well rotted! I have thought about collecting some and bringing home but was unsure how long it would take before I could use. Any ideas??
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