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Gardening for the Elderly

Hi all,

I was hoping for a bit of advice so I can spruce up up my grandparents garden please.  It's currently a bit neglected as my grandparents can't manage much gardening these days. My mum mows the lawn fairly regularly but doesn't get much time do to other gardening tasks.  

The garden is on a slope and south-west facing, with chalky soil. It's in the Kentish coastal south east, but the garden is up on the cliffs so it can get a bit chilly and windy. I forgot to write down my measurements (d'oh!) but I know the patio in the photos below is 4m wide and the bank between it and the fence is around a metre wide. There's currently hollyhocks, Japanese anemones, a climbing rose and a few clematis already in the garden, so I was thinking of cottage style planting.


(there's around another metre of the garden to the left of this image - mostly planted / overgrown weeds along the fence). 

My thoughts are to remove the useless strip of lawn between the patio and fence and plant it up, plus create a proper border along the back fence. Any suggestions of really low maintenance plants?

My concern is that, in my enthusiasm for making the garden look pretty with plants, I'll just be creating more gardening maintenance which my grandparents won't be able to manage. 

My nan used to love gardening but she can't kneel or bend down. I think she'll able to sit in a chair and dead head / weed etc plants edging the patio on the raised slope / any raised planters that I put in, but any other plants need to be able to get on with things on their own. 

Any advice on making the garden beautiful without adding too much work would be greatly appreciated. My budget is fairly low, so I can't afford to do anything too radical with the hard landscaping. I do have a very handy partner who is good at making wooden planters and raised beds cheaply however :smiley:

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  • AnniDAnniD Posts: 12,585
    edited May 2019
    Hello @AverageNoodle ! That's a lovely gesture, to help your grandparents  :) My OH is doing something very similar with his parent's garden, they are both approaching 90.
    Are you willing/able to help them out with maintenance at all, say once a month ? Cottage style planting is lovely but it does involve deadheading etc. Shrubs would be lower maintenance .
    Edited to add that raised beds are a good idea, if your partner can make them with quite wide edges that could be used as a seat, if your grandparents can manage that. If you planted scented things such as lavender, they can smell the scent more easily. 
  • FireFire Posts: 19,096
    I would go happy shrubs and bulbs (spring and summer) and amelanchier - low maintenance, colourful. Such as choisya, summer allium, snowdrops, ceanothus, philadelphus. Plus low, spreading ground cover - creeping ceanothus, woodruff, mexican fleabane, phlox. Make sure the fences are as good and protective as they can be.


  • ObelixxObelixx Posts: 30,090
    I think this is a lovely gesture and idea but agree you should first check with the grandparents before digging up their garden.  I also think a mix of low maintenance shrubs and bulbs will be best with maybe a few perennials nearer the edge where your nan can easily reach.  

    I would also see if you can get all those empty looking tubs working again and fill them with decent planting compost and some annuals that will give bright, seasonal interest and just need watering and maybe dead-heading.

    Something else you could consider is making just a few planting holes next to the fence and planting a climbing or rambling rose or another clematis trained along wires you can stretch between vine eyes screwed into the fence posts.   These would provide colour and interest for them to look at and maybe perfume too depending on what you choose.

    Think about it, consult and then let us know which options you prefer and we can offer more specific help and advice.
    Vendée - 20kms from Atlantic coast.
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  • Brilliant, thank you all. Plenty of ideas there to get me started!

    Unfortunately, I don't live nearby otherwise I'd be happy to look after the garden for them. 

    It's come from my Nan reminiscing about cottage style gardens she used to have and wishing she could do a bit more, hence my mind running away with cottage garden plans. They are happy for me to revamp the garden but I know I can get a tad over enthusiastic so I'm trying to reign myself in.

    Focusing on shrubs and bulbs, with a few perennials is definitely a more helpful / proportional approach and will look lovely. 

  • AnniDAnniD Posts: 12,585
    @AverageNoodle, l had a bit more of a think about this overnight. Obelixx's comment about making use of the empty pots made me think that if there is somewhere your partner could construct a solid shelf unit, you could raise the pots up. It would need to be solid to take the weight, or you could invest in some new lightweight  plastic ones perhaps. Plant them with colourful annuals now, and then bulbs in the autumn for Spring colour.
    If your nan likes a bit of "pottering", she could deadhead things such as marigolds, or petunias don't need deadheading .You can use water retaining granules so that less watering is required . If she finds it difficult to lift a heavy watering can, she can then use a small one now and again.
    I would be interested to see what you come up with, if you don't mind posting some photos.  :)
  • HelixHelix Posts: 631
    What’s your GP’s house like?  Is it spick and span with everything matching, or a happy jumble?  It gives a clue as to what sort of garden they would like.  

    I would start modestly and see how they get on, so something nice up the fence, and cleaning and tidying up the patio and redoing the pots.  

    And if you do want to turn the grass strip into a shrub boarder make sure you use weed suppressant fabric so they don’t have to weed it! 
  • ButtercupdaysButtercupdays Posts: 4,546
    Potentilla fruticosa needs little or no maintenance, comes into leaf early and is covered in pretty flowers, in many different shades, all summer. I find its twiggy winter branches quite attractive too.
    It makes a good cottage garden shrub, and so do Hebes, though I can't grow all of them well here because they dislike my chilly winters. They would probably be fine in Kent though. They are evergreen  (or ever purple in some cases!) and Choisya with its lovely white scented flowers is another good one.

    If there are no persistent perennial weeds present, such as bindweed or ground elder, you could interplant with self seeders like aquilegia, forgetmenots, marigolds and poppies that would fill the garden with colour for little effort and would go a fair way to outcompeting other weeds.
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