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Mature garden is overwhelming
I'm a pretty inexperienced gardener who has, since moving five years ago, had a garden with a lot of very mature trees and large shrubs. We've spent the past years clearing out a lot of jungle like growth - adding about 10 feet of space at the end of the garden, and getting rid of ivy that was collapsing the wall (this is still a work in progress).

Although we're fortunate to have a decent size plot (70's housing estates were more generous than today I think) with some decent size plants that make it pretty private for a suburban garden, I don't love a lot about it. It's functional and gives my children a place to play but nothing hangs together and it lacks any sort of character. At some point - when time and budget allow - I would like to remedy that, but for the moment it's a case of making the most of what we have.
My biggest issue is that we've got some large plants (a pussy willow, two plum trees, a couple of evergreen leylandii types, a large laurel) which provide privacy, but they're all huge and getting bigger, and less manageable every year. I really want to cut them down to a manageable size (or get rid completely) but i'm worried that I will regret getting rid of too much and ending up with a flat barren space...
I don't mind doing stuff myself and I've tried looking for advice, but most of what I've read assumes that inexperienced gardeners are looking for advice on planting, and that only experienced gardeners have mature gardens!
Apologies if this sort of question comes up a lot - please let me know if there are any threads that answer it already - but any help or advice appreciated.
Thanks.

Although we're fortunate to have a decent size plot (70's housing estates were more generous than today I think) with some decent size plants that make it pretty private for a suburban garden, I don't love a lot about it. It's functional and gives my children a place to play but nothing hangs together and it lacks any sort of character. At some point - when time and budget allow - I would like to remedy that, but for the moment it's a case of making the most of what we have.
My biggest issue is that we've got some large plants (a pussy willow, two plum trees, a couple of evergreen leylandii types, a large laurel) which provide privacy, but they're all huge and getting bigger, and less manageable every year. I really want to cut them down to a manageable size (or get rid completely) but i'm worried that I will regret getting rid of too much and ending up with a flat barren space...
I don't mind doing stuff myself and I've tried looking for advice, but most of what I've read assumes that inexperienced gardeners are looking for advice on planting, and that only experienced gardeners have mature gardens!
Apologies if this sort of question comes up a lot - please let me know if there are any threads that answer it already - but any help or advice appreciated.
Thanks.
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Conifers don't take kindly to being hacked but can be tidied up as long as you don't cut all the green off and go into brown wood. They do not re-grow from brown wood. Maybe plant something more attractive to grow on so you can remove them completely later on without losing privacy.
Plum trees can be pruned but best not in winter as this may encourage disease - see advice here - https://www.rhs.org.uk/advice/profile?pid=339
A good way to have privacy and height is trellis panels and/or pergolas with climbers such as roses, clematis, honeysuckle on them to provide colour and/or perfume. I suggest you google about on pinterest for garden design ideas and have a look at some magazines - online or at the library to save funds - to get ideas and then make a list of features you would like - seating, dining, BBQ, pond, herbs, veggies, cut flowers, low maintenance shrubs and perennials, shed/summer house, composting and recycling bin storage, etc - and then try drawing them all to scale on paper.
Do you want plants you can pick up at the local DIY or garden centre or do you want to start sowing seeds and growing on? How much time will you have to keep it all looking good? Bear in mind that as children grow up their needs change so your garden can involve into a more sociable and adult phase in due course.
Think about all that and then prioritise.
garden again and live with it a bit before deciding whether or not to keep the plum trees and laurel. Have a look around your local area to see if there are any shrubs, trees or plants you really like and get some of those.
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