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  • Zoe P2Zoe P2 Posts: 848
    Sorry to hear the terrible news.  I imagine his behaviour became threatening.  How sad for your friend.



    I have a dream that my.. children.. one day.. will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character

      Martin Luther King

  • Sam 37Sam 37 Posts: 1,271
    Yes, she's sad but also sort of relieved, hoping that he'll receive the treatment he needs.  He has always been "I'll do as I like" kind of person and never got on with his own sister or his neighbours, though from time to time he could be very pleasant.  His mother told me that over the years, they had to move houses several times because of this; or neighbours got fed up and moved.  Moreover, he never managed to hold down a job for long, though he has a degree in Computing and for a few months was head of IT in a large company but could not get on with the staff, so he had to go.

    A few months ago, some new people moved next door to them.  At once he started pestering them, so they ignored him.  The more they ignored him, the angrier and more vindictive he became.  Last week, it was my friend's birthday, so her daughter took her on a weekend break.  On her return, she was shocked to see that he'd cut down a tree belonging to the neighbours and threw the branches into their garden.  There was a horrendous scene which ended with his sectioning.

    I had her here for many hours and I think talking to me made her feel better.  All I did was listen and provide some food but she was grateful because, as she put it, it's not easy to talk to people about mental illness; they always try to change the subject.
  • Zoe P2Zoe P2 Posts: 848
    How lucky she is to have a friend like you, Sam!  It can't be easy to live with a mentally ill person, so of course she appreciates your care. 

    Bless you!



    I have a dream that my.. children.. one day.. will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character

      Martin Luther King

  • PhaidraPhaidra Posts: 582
    Sam 37 said:
     her daughter took her on a weekend break.  
    I feel I need a short break too though it's difficult for the rest of the family just now.  Still, something to look forward to.  Right now I must water all my flower pots....
  • Artemis3Artemis3 Posts: 751
    Phaidra said:
     
    I feel I need a short break 
    And so do I  



    but after reading this I decided to wait till next year!
  • Artemis3Artemis3 Posts: 751
    I have had this cactus for a few years and always remembered to take it indoors in October in order to keep it dry till March.  Somehow, I failed to do so last October and as it did not have its dry period, I felt certain there would be no flowers this year.

    I was thrilled to see that a winter and spring out in the garden did it no harm.  Its flowers are as wonderful as ever and, moreover, it is covered in many promising buds!


  • wild edgeswild edges Posts: 10,497
    Just sayin'

    If you can keep your head, while those around you are losing theirs, you may not have grasped the seriousness of the situation.
  • Artemis3 said:


    I was thrilled to see that a winter and spring out in the garden did it no harm.  Its flowers are as wonderful as ever and, moreover, it is covered in many promising buds!


    What beautiful  flowers!  Nature is so wonderful in her unpredictable ways!  I think we have all been told that cacti need a dry spell.  Here is evidence that disproves it!

    I have a cactus that produces similar looking flowers.  Unfortunately, in the past two years it hasn't been as prolific as in the past.  I don't think it's got COVID but I'm certain it needs re-potting.  Sadly its thorns are lethal, so I'm leaving it alone.

    My cactus before COVID...


  • Sam 37Sam 37 Posts: 1,271
    Well done you both!

    I often felt attracted to cacti- specifically their flowers- but those lethal thorns always succeed in dissuading me!
  • Zoe P2Zoe P2 Posts: 848
    Sam 37 said:

    I often felt attracted to cacti- specifically their flowers- but those lethal thorns always succeed in dissuading me!
    And so have I, Sam.  :|

    How are you and your friend?  I imagine her son is still in hospital.



    I have a dream that my.. children.. one day.. will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character

      Martin Luther King

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