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The dreaded 'C' is back

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  • LynLyn Posts: 23,190

    Hope your hubby will be ok Nanny Beach a worrying time. Thought and prayers with him. x 

    Gardening on the wild, windy west side of Dartmoor. 

  • josusa47josusa47 Posts: 3,530

    Heavenly Father, please show your love and mercy to Mike,Treehugger, Pauline, Nanny Beach and her husband.  Please restore them to full health, and don't let their gardens get in a mess while they're out of action. I ask these things in Jesus' name.

  • Joyce21Joyce21 Posts: 15,489

    best wishes for a speedy recovery Mike.

    SW Scotland
  • B3B3 Posts: 27,505

    Best wishes.

     Mike

    In London. Keen but lazy.
  • Best of wishes for your op next week Mike and to everyone else troubled with illness?

    Wearside, England.
  • IamweedyIamweedy Posts: 1,364

    Mike Allen Sending best wishes to you at this stressful time.   .




    'You must have some bread with it me duck!'

  • If you are going to get it, ideally in a bit you can have removed and do without, thank you for good wishes and prayers folks. Just rung Hospital hes still in "recovery".And I have cut the grass today, just to make sure.

  • Mark56Mark56 Posts: 1,653

    Thinking of you Mike & everyone else who has been diagnosed, all the best.

  • Dear Mike, I’m truly sorry to read your difficult news.  I can’t imagine exactly how you’re feeling but I guess your emotions are all over the place.  In my experience, that’s natural.  My own brother is fighting cancer too, so I know how overwhelming it can be.

    Try to concentrate, as much as you can, on matters positive: it’s treatable and medicine is advancing all the time.  If others can defeat it, you can too.

    I have no doubt that, at times, hope is a thing a little out of reach.  When I, personally, feel like that, I cry.  Crying somehow relieves my pent-up pain, fears, frustrations, anger or sense of isolation and helps me regain some approximation of equanimity.  I can then look my enemy in the face and know my enemy is beatable.

    It takes strength to admit our own unhappiness, especially when we feel it’s a sign of weakness; but we can’t hide from our own minds, so accepting what we are is one way of unburdening ourselves a little, I think.

    At times of overwhelming stress, I try to keep my mind and body as busy as possible.  To avoid my own distressing thoughts, I keep the radio on day and night; just low so it doesn’t keep me from getting some sleep – when I can sleep - but there’s always a human voice in the room. 

    Paradoxically, at such times I find sad songs a comfort.  Perhaps they help me feel I’m not the only one in such an unhappy situation?

    I’ve heard that writing a letter, to whom or whatever you wish to address, in which you make all your feelings clear, is quite helpful. 

    At the time of my extreme emotional pain, I had a magnificent clergyman who helped me enormously.  Talking to someone, in whom you have complete confidence, is most helpful. 

    So, say what needs saying and keep your thoughts positive: it can and will be overcome.

    Best wishes, Mike. X

  • All the best, Mike for your operation and recovery, and to the others that are affected with this horrible illness.

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